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Coaching Episode: 17 Days Sober: Using CRAFT Skills to Help Mom Navigate Her Son’s First Unexpected Weekend Home From Treatment

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When a child leaves treatment unexpectedly and returns home in early sobriety, parents face a complex mix of emotions and questions. In this coaching episode, Marie navigates her 16-year-old son’s first weekend home after leaving his therapeutic boarding school just 13-14 days into the program, triggered by trauma from a past residential experience. Weekend Anxiety

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Coaching Episode: Finding Healthy Ways to Let Go of Expectations and Nagging While Affirming Your Child’s Choices

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When a child returns from residential treatment, parents often find themselves caught between relief and anxiety. Karolina, who lives in San Jose, California with her husband and two sons ages 19 and 17, knows this tension well. Her older son spent a year and a half in treatment and returned home last summer, choosing to

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Coaching Episode: Responding to Disrespect, Holding Boundaries, and Reducing the Overwhelm of Big Next Steps

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Parenting an 18-year-old who struggles with substance misuse while still in high school presents unique challenges, especially when disrespectful behavior escalates. This coaching episode with Jamie explores practical strategies for managing these difficult moments while maintaining boundaries and connection. Why Distance Yourself During Disrespectful Outbursts When your child becomes disrespectful or verbally abusive, one of

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Coaching Episode: Creative Options to Reduce Anxiety and Build Confidence & Independence Post-High School and Residential Treatment

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Navigating the transition home after residential treatment presents unique challenges for families, especially when COVID-19 limited aftercare support and young adults turn 18 during treatment. This episode features Lynn, a mother of two, discussing her 18-year-old son’s journey through substance use, eating disorder (ARFID), trauma, and the difficult months following his return from residential care.

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Coaching episode: Navigating Life Post-Treatment: Boundaries With A College Age Son, Lots Of Advice And Re-Focusing On Self Care

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When your college-age child is using substances, the space between supporting them and setting healthy limits can feel impossibly narrow. Mary’s coaching session addresses this universal struggle as she navigates life with her son after treatment, while also processing the recent death of her nephew from fentanyl poisoning. Setting Boundaries Without Controlling Mary had done

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With An Almost 18-Year-Old Who’s Smoking Pot Daily, Mom Wants to Know, Am I Doing Enough?

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With An Almost 18-Year-Old Who’s Smoking Pot Daily, Mom Wants to Know, Am I Doing Enough?

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Parenting a teenager who uses marijuana daily can feel like walking a tightrope between protecting them and pushing them away. Susan, a single mom of three, knows this struggle intimately. When she first noticed her son using substances in seventh or eighth grade, her instinct was to control the situation through any means necessary—including literally

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Coaching Episode: How To Cope And Find Contentment With A Son Home From Treatment, Unmotivated, Anti-Everything, And Disconnected From The Family

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When a child returns home from residential treatment, parents often hope for reconnection and progress. But what happens when your son comes home unmotivated, anti-everything, and emotionally disconnected from the family? This coaching episode explores one mother’s journey through exactly this challenge. The Journey: From Crisis to Treatment to Home Jane’s story began two years

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Coaching Episode #4: Positivity And A Resilient Spirit: Key Ingredients For The Mom Of An 18-Year-Old On The Upswing From His Opiate Addiction

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Understanding the Long Journey: Six Years of Parenting Through Addiction When Cielo’s son started smoking marijuana at age 12, she never imagined the six-year journey that lay ahead. Her son had shown signs of sensitivity and struggled with following rules from a young age, eventually using substances to cope with anxiety. Today, at 18, he’s

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Coaching Episode #3: Finding Points of Control When Life Feels Chaotic; Post-Residential Struggle, Marijuana Use, Mental Health Concerns And A Very Tired Mom

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When your child returns from residential treatment only to relapse within months, the sense of failure and chaos can be overwhelming. For Mandy, a mother of three boys who works three-quarter time for the city in administration, this reality hit hard after spending $150,000 on a year of therapeutic boarding school for her 15-year-old son.

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