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The Influence Paradox: How Giving Up Control Can Give You Sway, with Dr. Emily Kline

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When your child is misusing substances, every parenting instinct screams at you to take control, fix the problem, and force change. But Dr. Emily Kline offers a counterintuitive approach that she’s used successfully with families for years: the path to influence runs directly through letting go of control. Dr. Kline’s approach is grounded in motivational